When you have no children but married, you fit so much the general pattern of young happy couples. Nothing is eye-catching, nothing reveals an "abnormal" (is in commas as it doesn't fit with the normality of this world) perspective on life. When kids start to come in the family, all of a sudden, the general pattern excludes the new and diverse pattern that formed out of "nowhere" (!).
What I mean is, when you act like all the others you don't stick out but when crossing the barrier and passing through the sieve and beginning to show and do according to what you believe in, then that's wow! ANd you cannot pretend no more, you are like the others as you are not. You're totally different, bringing up 3 kids and wanting more it's a sign of naivity and even of stupidity as some think.
So, what I wanted to say is once you have one, two, three kids and more and want them to learn certain values and principles you believe in, you cannot hide, they are your mirror, multiplied by two, three, and God knows how many times there will be...
It is an encouragement for me to do and act according to what I believe in, still not push others and press others into my own principles' kitchen!
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